Life Abroad After 30: Tips for Americans Ready to Relocate
For many Americans, the idea of moving abroad feels like a dream reserved for retirees or students. But Cepee Tabibian, founder of She Hit Refresh and author of I’m Outta Here: An American’s Ultimate Visa Guide to Living in Europe, has proven that moving to Europe in your 30s, 40s, or even later in life is not only possible, it’s empowering.
At age 35, Cepee sold her belongings, left Texas, and moved to Spain. A decade later, she’s helping thousands of women over 30 build their new lives abroad through her Move Abroad After 30 Masterclass and the Refreshers Lounge community.
Why Spain (and Europe) Still Captures American Hearts
“I fell in love with Madrid when I was 21,” Cepee recalls. “It was my Goldilocks moment: the energy, vibrancy, and lifestyle felt just right.”
Like many aspiring expats, the hardest part wasn’t falling in love with Europe, it was getting the visa. For over 10 years, Cepee tried different approaches, from student visas to teaching English. But eventually, she made it work and now guides others through the maze of European visa options.
For Americans over 30, Spain and Portugal remain top destinations thanks to affordable living costs, rich cultures, and accessible visas. But Cepee also points to under-the-radar gems.
“Albania is one of the most overlooked options for U.S. citizens. You can live there visa-free for a year,” she explains.
The Emotional Side of Moving Abroad
It’s easy to focus on logistics, housing, work, visas, but Cepee emphasizes the inner journey.
“Moving abroad isn’t just about living your same life in a new country. It’s a chance to redesign your life in a way that really aligns with your values.”
Loneliness and culture shock are real challenges, especially for Americans moving abroad after 30. Making deep friendships can take years.
Cepee shares: “It took me two and a half years to find my ride-or-die friends in Spain. Acquaintances come quickly, but lasting friendships take time.”
Practical Roadblocks Americans Face Abroad
- Housing: Landlords often want local pay stubs, making it harder for Americans with freelance or remote income.
- Work & Income: The digital nomad visa didn’t exist when Cepee moved. Now, remote work opens far more doors for Americans abroad.
- Visas: From retirement visas to digital nomad visas, options exist, but rules change frequently.
“No visa is set in stone,” Cepee warns.
Community Makes the Journey Easier
Moving abroad can be isolating without support. That’s why Cepee built She Hit Refresh, a global online community for women over 30. When your family and friends don’t understand your dream, connecting with others who do makes all the difference.
Advice for Americans Over 30 Considering the Move
Cepee’s first piece of advice?
“Get clear on your vision. Don’t just think about leaving the US; think about the life you want to create. Europe isn’t a monolith. Germany and Switzerland offer structure, while Spain and Portugal thrive on spontaneity. Know what fits your personality.”
Her biggest reminder: you don’t need to be wealthy or retired. You just need a clear plan and patience.
“Moving abroad is a series of imperfect actions. You’ll figure it out as you go.”
Connect with Our Guest
Cepee Tabibian is the founder of She Hit Refresh, a global online community for women 30 and over who want to break free from routine and start a life abroad. She is the author of I’m Outta Here: An American’s Ultimate Visa Guide to Living in Europe and creator of the Move Abroad After 30 Masterclass. Through coaching, courses, and her vibrant community, Cepee empowers women to take bold steps toward living abroad with confidence.
- Website: shehitrefresh.com
- Instagram: @shehitrefresh
- Facebook Group: She Hit Refresh Community
More About the Author
Arielle Tucker CFP®, EA is a financial planner and host of Passport to Wealth™. She specializes in guiding Americans pursuing lives abroad to align their finances, purpose, and lifestyle choices. Arielle combines expertise in cross-border planning with insights into intentional living to help clients design a life rich in fulfillment and meaning abroad. You can connect with her here.